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Thursday, January 9, 2014

And The Beat Goes On: Things are moving forward

Okay, so if you haven't been following this blog from the first post to now, you've missed a ton of drama!  I came up with an idea for an original musical starring me and two drag queens.  I pitched the idea to major producers who loved it, I began creating the script and songs, I brought a queen to Vegas from Florida to be in the play, he moved in with me for what was to be two days, he stayed for over two months and pulled a huge con on me and others, I got others to write letters, I filed criminal charges, the charges have moved up to the DA's office, I also am filing civil charges, that con (MARVIN NATHAN) was recently evicted from his apartment that I paid for, he has been calling people from the airport where he is now a vagrant, I have been talking with a few TV reality show producers about doing a reality show based upon the making of my play and all the drama surrounding it, and I'm now nearly finished with the script and several song demos to make ready for a presentation to the interested producers and the reality TV peeps.  Now, you are kind of caught up!  LOL!

It was truly a rough 2013.  On top of all the above, nine of our close friends/family passed away, someone is trying to cancel one of my trademarks via expensive litigation that I am winning, but not a fun time, Gene needs colon surgery and I feel like I'm in a TV reality show right now!

The support from friends has been amazing!   I am truly blessed.  Oh, and I finally got someone to send one of my original songs to a top Broadway songstress to see if she will record it.  So, fingers crossed!

For a person that has never been in litigation, I now have the trademark suit, the civil and criminal suit against Marvin Nathan, and even a civil suit against a theater owner in Myrtle Beach who breached a contract years ago and never made good.  Boy, I should have gone to law school like my mother wanted!

But, to all things there is a season, and I feel like the tide has turned and it's all gonna roll my way!

I am so very excited about how the play is turning out!  It is a real gem with a ton of potential.  All it needs is the right people behind it.  And a TV reality show wouldn't hurt, either!

I don't know how many people are reading this blog, but I've been averaging over 1000 hits per week since I started it on Dec. 13, 2013.  If you are one of those following this journey, may I ask you to join this blog by pressing the "join this site" button at the top right near where the pictures of followers all are.  This way, I'll know how many people are actually reading this.  It will give me some leverage for the reality show if I get a lot of followers, so you'd be helping me out a great deal!

I'm waiting to hear what has happened with Marvin.  He may still be at the airport, or a friend that always bails him out might move him back to Florida.  I don't think he'll be conning too many more people after this, though.  He really had a wonderful opportunity for a grand career with my play, and to work for Frank Marino in his premier drag show "Divas."  But he was just a pro at being a con!  He did not want to work.  He wanted things given to him.

I LOVE to work!  I LOVE to create!  I LOVE to help people!  And I LOVE to inspire!

So, onward I go!  Security does not come from a bank account or from anywhere outside of yourself.  It comes from within and from knowing what you can create.  It comes from confronting and overcoming barriers.  It comes from the power of truth and it comes from being at peace with who you are as a spiritual being.

I am grateful for all my blessings and I hope that you will give me the added blessing of joining my blog.  I have so many things to "Cher" with you!  Oh, speaking of "Cher," here are few pics of me from a charity event I attended last night with my husband.  Take care and hope to see you on my "followers" list soon!








 (My husband, Gene, me, impressionist star, Gordie Brown, his lovely assistant, Morgan)




(Judy Thorburn and myself)

Sunday, January 5, 2014

SONG: THE DRAG QUEEN TUCK

OMG!  I am so cracking myself up as I work on this new song for the play!  It will be sung by the two drag queens as they explain to the straight chick (my part) who performs with them, how they tuck they male parts away in order to look more ladylike in their costumes.

I've decided it might be fun to give sneak peeks into the creative process as I continue to finish the script and songs for this musical.  So today, I'm going to give you a look at how I came up with the idea to write a "tuck" song, and how I did the research for it.

There is a scene in the beginning of the play where my character talks about how her husband used to sleep around on her.  So, of course, the three cast members initiate a conversation about the male organ.  (Trying to be genteel with words)

Well, one thing leads to another until my character asks the two queens how they hide their male parts.  This is the segue` leading into the DRAG QUEEN TUCK song.

So, how did I research this topic?  First, I have had many queen friends for decades.  One of my closest drag friends was the late, great Kenny Kerr.


Kenny had the first drag show in Las Vegas and paved the way for all other drag shows which followed.  He was also the first person to ever coach me in how to do my "Cher" make-up.  We have a lush history together.  He let me borrow one of his treasured "Cher" wigs that was made by Cher's own wig maker for a TV audition I had years ago.  I wrote original songs for him and I was with him days before he passed away.

Anyway, Kenny had some of the best lines he'd use in his show when someone would ask him where he put his private part.  Here are some of his answers:  "I tie one end of a string around my penis and the other and around a golf ball...shove it up my ass and yell four."  And, " Where would you like it?"  

Kenny was a master at witty comebacks and the ultimate performer.  I miss him dearly.

Okay, so now I needed to talk to a safe queen who wouldn't be offended by my prying into his personal business regarding the junk in his trunk.  I called a dear, sweet drag queen who stars in Frank Marino's "Divas" now at The Quad here in Las Vegas.  I called Larry Edwards aka Hot Chocolate.



Besides being one of the hardest working queens in Vegas, Larry is also one of the most beloved.  It was fun hearing Larry speaking so politically correct as he explained to me the various ways to disguise one's manhood.  

There is always duct tape...but make sure to shave!  There is a dance belt which hugs your stuff tightly. 






There is a gaff which is like a g-string but can leave red rings on your legs.

Then, you can add padding and/or layers of opaque tights to smooth it all out.  Does that give you enough information for now?  LOL!  Well, if not, you will be getting the "how-to" in the new song for my play called, "Drag Queen Tuck!"  

I hope this story gets you curious as to how this song will turn out.  If you become a "follower" of my blog, you will get personal emails from me with even more fun tidbits and possibly some private links to the songs as well as video.  So, if you want to follow this blog, just go to the top right of any post, click on the "Join this site" icon and follow the prompts.  You may need a free google account but it only takes a minute.  I look forward to "Cher-ing" this journey with you.  

My next post will look into how the story came about, and I'll even show you some pictures of the original show summary.  Take care!

Saturday, January 4, 2014

The Shizzle Hits The Fan

On December 19, 2013 there still was no sign of any money coming in from any of the various sources Marvin had previously promoted as coming in "tomorrow."  At this juncture, I was no longer held hostage by his signed document to invest in the musical.  I was no longer held hostage by his promise of "extra money" to make up for all that we had done.  I was no longer held hostage by his supposed "ill health" or any of those things that once baited me on his hook.  The game changed.  It was time for me to investigate!

It is a rule of thumb that where you hear scathing critical remarks coming out of someone's mouth, it usually means that the critical person has committed some transgression against those for whom he is being critical.  So, I began calling people Marvin had complained about.  One of the first calls was to a man in Florida.  Marvin said this man was always meddling in his personal affairs and would not leave him alone.  In fact, Marvin had previously told me that this same person, (we'll call him BB) had sent him money to help him get settled here in Vegas, but that Marvin sent it back because he didn't want this person meddling in his private life.

When BB began telling me stories of how Marvin had a checkered past of scamming people, my heart fell into my stomach!  The scam that Marvin had used in Florida was a tale that he was waiting for his Mother's estate to settle.  During that time, he conned a Florida condominium company to let him stay in a condo for free while they waited for Marvin to get his "inheritance" because Marvin was going to buy two condos from them!  Of course, the money never did come in and Marvin ran up a bill of over $8,000 before they kicked him out!  BB had other stories as well, but I think you get the picture.  I was hearing the same story from BB that Marvin had been telling to me!  Wow!  This guy was a professional con artist!

I called another person who we will call "T" to ask him about Marvin, because Marvin had really ragged on this guy a bunch while living with me.  What T had to say was amazing!  He told me of the same scam technique, and also that Marvin would pretend to talk on the phone to his "lawyer" or "banker" or whomever.  T found out there was no one else on the other end of the phone when he literally dialed a phone that Marvin was "talking to his lawyer" on, and the phone RANG!  LOL!

Each phone call led me to another "victim" who basically recounted the same scam stories.  Marvin pretends to need a place to stay for a day or two.  Then, he pretends some big money is coming in which keeps getting delayed, thus giving him more free room and board.  He pretends to go house or condo or car or furniture shopping, all at the same places!  It seems that Marvin loves Car Max, RC Willey and other favorites places to use in his scam stories.

I had also begun to write this blog and had the first two posts up as a way to possibly scare Marvin into getting his act together.  What Marvin did instead, after learning I was calling people to check up on him and after reading this blog, was to leave a hostile message on my voice mail!  Can you believe the audacity?  I'm going to post the voice mail on YouTube very soon because it is utterly entertaining.  Marvin steal and lies and signs fraudulent investment documents, etc. and then has the NERVE to leave me a voice message stating that he no longer respects me or trusts me or wants anything to do with me!  He further warns me that I don't want to get him on the aggressive because I won't win!  Are you kidding me with this stuff?

That night, I was really stewing over the fact that he stole from me and Gene, knowing that we were in the middle of other litigation, and that Gene needed surgery.  I was livid that he offered to "loan us the money to handle our legal situation and that he'd help with Gene's surgery, knowing that he had no intention of doing so.  I was shocked that he took money from sister knowing she had a serious heart condition and that she couldn't work to avoid stress.  I was simply and utterly dumbfounded.

Around 5am, I decided that I needed to be more proactive.  So, I warned everyone I could on Facebook.  Then, I called all the drag queens I know, including the Queen of queens, Frank Marino, who was going to hire Marvin for his "Divas" show in Reno in February.  All the queens were very understanding.  Some even cried with me.  Some called him names.  Some just gave support.

The next thing I knew, Marvin had found out what I was doing and so began posting lies about ME on his Facebook page!  Now, he was adding libel to his acts of fraud!  A friend of mine texted me Marvin's posts.  Here's the first one for your viewing pleasure:



I called one of Marvin's friends to ask him to have Marvin take the libel off of Facebook or face more consequences.  Marvin took it all off.

I then gathered all the evidence together, including letters from others who had been conned by Marvin, and filed a criminal case on Dec. 23, 2013.

I am also filing a Civil Case against him, not because I think I'll collect any money, but because I want this legally on record.

I have emails from Marvin, admitting that he owes us the money.  In fact, he even tried to scam us again in those emails by stating he wanted to the "honorable" thing and that he had another "lawyer friend" who make up a contract with a payment schedule.  Well, you can read this for yourself.


MARVIN:
Due to the recent communication to every one I know, There is not a single person who will loan me this amount by tomorrow. The reality is I do have a monthly income stream and you are correct that if Franks does not keep me hired it will effect my ability to pay you back. Lets work out this arrangement to be able to honorably pay you back, in a realistic way. As for the Attorney. He is a personal friend doing this for me. He has no desire to get involved and is preparing the document free of charge to me.

ME:
On Sunday, December 22, 2013 1:18 PM, Heidi Thompson <wowgirlprod@aim.com> wrote:
How are you going to pay this, and who is the attorney?

This sounds like more BS!  So, no.  I don't agree.  If I don't get payment by tomorrow, we are done.  Borrow it and pay someone else the schedule below.  

Your job with Frank is also hanging on this.  You've strung me along far too long.  No more, period.  Done!

Heidi

Sent from my iPad
MARVIN:
On Dec 22, 2013, at 1:07 PM, Marvin Nathan <lasvegasentertainer@yahoo.com> wrote:
The following is the arrangement of payment.
JAN. 4,      1,000.00
FEB, 4,      1,000.00
MARCH 4, 1,000.00
APRIL 4,   1,000.00
MAY 4,       1,120.00

Hiedi, I'm having an attorney prepare a settlement agreement. With a confidentiality clause. I need to give the Attorney the terms of the agreement. Do you agree to the arrangement up above. If so please confirm with me. So I can get this prepared for our signatures on or before 26th of December 2013. I like you, would like to put this behind us.
Marvin


ME:
On Sunday, December 22, 2013 12:33 PM, Heidi Thompson <wowgirlprod@aim.com> wrote:
Tomorrow, we have an appointment to file the criminal complaint.  That is our schedule unless you can show proof of your intentions today.

There are no more "tomorrow's" left.  Sorry.  You used them all up.

Heidi

Sent from my iPad
MARVIN:
On Dec 22, 2013, at 12:21 PM, Marvin Nathan <lasvegasentertainer@yahoo.com> wrote:
Dear Heidi and Gene,
It is unfortunate, I do apologize for any problems I might have caused. I owe you 5,120.00 in total. I will contact you on the 26th in a email outlining this with a plan to pay this back to you. This I hope will stop the demeaning behavior of us both. I will take care of this in a fast, and mature way. I do have a list of what it is. Its updated in your favor. If you want it , write me back and I will send it.

Thank You,
Marvin Nathan 


So, there it is.  You would think that with all of this proof along with letters from others who have also been scammed by Marvin, that the legal system would cooperate in getting this menace put behind bars.  But it is not that cut and dry.

In order for the DA's office to even take notice, I feel I must get some press on this story.  So, I've reached out to George Knapp, John Katz and Robin Leach to see if I can get any traction on this story via their media status.

I'm sending this data to an LA Producer interested in pitching a TV reality show about the making of my play.  This whole ordeal with Marvin would make dramatic TV as a reenactment alongside the making of the musical.

I'm calling in some favors from some friends.

I'm filing a Civil Suit.

IF NO ONE DOES ANYTHING WHEN A CRIME IS COMMITTED, THEN CRIME WILL CONTINUE TO BE COMMITTED!

Our legal/justice system is in need of some serious work.  But, then again, so are many things.  I just want to know that I did whatever I could do to keep someone else from going through the emotional, spiritual, and mental Hell that comes from being betrayed and financially raped.

I will keep you posted as to how this case unfolds.  I know I will at least get a civil judgement and it will go on public record.  At least, I can get that done.  Let's see if the press comes in like the cavalry or if I'm left to fight the good fight on my own.

For now, this is a wrap.  I've got a musical to complete and the show will go on!  I've done all I can. 

Stay tuned for posts regarding the development of the musical.  The first meeting with the Producers is next month.  I've got a ton of work to do to prepare.  Thank you for listening and for being there.  It means a lot!

THE END OF THE MARVIN SAGA...FOR NOW...





Broadway in December (Day 3)

My alarm went off at 8am!  That was really 5am Las Vegas time, but I was determined that the three of us get rush tickets to a matinee.  So, I called my sister to ensure she was up and we soon headed out to get in line at the theaters where we were to wait for the $37 rush tickets.

Gene and I walked Renee to the theater where "Pippin" was playing.  I decided to stay with her while Gene went over to the theater where "After Midnight" was playing.  Had I not already seen "Pippin," I would have gone with my sister to the matinee.

While in line for Pippin tickets, we met two young male students who were also waiting for rush tickets.  Talking to them helped to pass the hour as we all shivered in the brisk, New York air.

Gene called and told me he was the only person in line at the theater where the new show "After Midnight" was offering rush tickets.  I felt sorry for him because he didn't have anyone to help him pass the time.  But, he got our two $37 tickets as soon as the box office opened at 10am.  So, I left Renee in line with the two young students while I walked over to the TKTS booth in Time's Square to meet Gene.

Renee and I were hoping to get discount tickets to see Kinky Boots that night.  Gene had already seen it and said it was good.  Kinky Boots won the Tony for "Best Musical" as well as several other categories.  It features drag queens, which makes it very applicable to my life since I'm writing a new musical starring myself and two queens.  Thus, it was the best play for us to see.  Gene decided to go with us to see it again because he is orchestrating the songs for our original musical.  We bought three tickets, met Renee who had her Pippin rush ticket in hand, and all went to lunch at a little deli.

Renee was happy because she got a seat to Pippin right next to the young man we were talking with in line.  So, she didn't feel lonely.  She actually ended up getting really great seats in the mezzanine and had a wonderful time!  Pippin was one of the best Broadway musicals Gene and I had ever seen.  My heart was joyful knowing Renee would have that same experience.

As for Gene and myself, our seats for "After Midnight" were the farthest seats on the left where we missed half of the view of the stage!  LOL!  To top that, the performers used the stairs in front of our feet, so we had to keep them tucked close to our seats.

"After Midnight" was basically a Cotton Club Review with a great big band, wonderful singers and dancers, and two celebrity performers:  Dule` Hill (from the TV show, "Psyche") and American Idol winner, Fantasia.  Well, it was a good show, but not a great one.  There were some talented acts, though.  Fantasia was especially amazing.  Her voice was a splendid match for the old classic tunes she sang against a backdrop of some of New York's finest musicians.  As for Dule`, well, he didn't shine quite so brightly as he does on TV.   But it was an interesting experience, especially with our seats being where they were!  LOL!

I really didn't want to walk the long way back to our hotel after the matinee in the cold.  I was really tired, but we stopped in various stores to keep warm until we got there.  A little rest and then off to Kinky Boots!

I must say that it was hard to sit in discounted seats way up in the back mezzanine for Kinky Boots!  LOL!  I'm usually the diva who has premium tickets.  (Our view of the set)


I ate a ton of humble pie during this trip, but I must say that I am grateful for being able to go at all!  I am especially thankful to have spent such quality time with my husband and my sister.

Kinky Boots was highly entertaining as well as educational.  It gave me confidence that my new musical would have a wide audience appeal and that drag queens were gaining popularity.  Maybe this play would give me the writing career I'd been chasing since nearly getting a musical I wrote on Broadway in 1985?  Maybe I needed to be in this situation and in this place at this time in order to accomplish what I wanted to accomplish?  I was trying to find the good in all that was happening around me as the gnawing in my gut reflected my concern over what I knew I must face with Marvin upon returning home.

A picture I took of garbage bags covered in melting snow best depicted my emotions at that moment.  Marvin's snow job was melting and there was a ton of garbage underneath.


We were flying home the next afternoon.  I made the decision that night that Marvin was no longer my friend for putting us all in the position of being in New York without getting us any money back.  I made the decision that, even if he really were getting the life-insurance check or the money from the Credit Union settlement, I did not want him involved in the musical as an investor or as a performer.  I made the decision that I was going to investigate him when I got home by calling everyone he had spoken about during the two months he stayed in my house.  I made the decision that he was no longer in charge of the game and that there were no more "tomorrows."  I was done waiting.  The ball was now in my court and the shizzle was going to hit the fan at warp speed...

There may be Hell to pay soon, but for now...there were big pretzels!  LOL!

The next morning, Renee and I went to a Farmer's Market on the edge of Central Park.


There, we got ideas as to how to market and sell her famous "TOFFEE ADDICTION" products.  We felt we had done something productive and got some great contacts.  Be on the lookout for "TOFFEE ADDICTION" toffees, toffee pop corn and other toffee-related items!  And, if you want a free taste, give me a call!  I've been getting a lot of my friends hooked on the stuff!  LOL!



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Broadway in December (Days 1 & 2)


Although we were not able to sell Marvin's hotel room or show ticket in order to have money for expenses, we somehow made it go right for the three of us to go to New York.  Trying to feel holiday cheer when you are worried you've just been scammed along with your sister, your husband and your friend, is not an easy task!  But being in NYC for the holidays and seeing some Broadway shows was on my sister's bucket list.  So, I swallowed my discontent as best as I could.

I had prepaid for three hotel rooms at a great rate in a nice hotel near Central Park.  Since we only needed two rooms, the manager of the hotel was kind enough to at least give me and Gene a room with a view of the Park as a gesture for losing the non-refundable fees for Marvin's room.

The view from that room had a beautiful but dismal feeling about it.  I snapped a shot with my phone because it captured how I was feeling right then.  I felt gray...


We had hoped to go see the Radio City Christmas Spectacular that night, but the sale tickets were gone by the time we got to the TKTS booth in the middle of Time's Square.  So, we had something to eat and then walked around in the cold, Winter night.




Rockefeller Center was nearby.  I thought it might be nice for Renee to see the big Christmas tree and the ice skating rink.  Of course, she got some great pictures.


The next morning, I let Gene sleep in while I went over to my sister's room just down the hall.  She was so excited to be there and wanted to get outside to see the sights.  We were able to get discount tickets for the Radio City Show that afternoon.

Even though the weather was freezing with flurries of snow, walking the seven blocks to Radio City Music Hall was not too bad, especially when you are holding the arm of a husband you love dearly. Renee stopped at some of the street vendors to find a knitted beret.  Then, we waited in the show line for a short while.

The gnawing in my stomach over the situation with Marvin was somewhat dulled as I watched my sister's enthusiasm upon entering Radio City Music Hall.  She is a photographer amongst her many other talents, and her camera was now being engaged from nearly every angle in this most festive and iconic theater lobby.

I love watching artists as they devour their craft!  Renee was in her element!

After the creative photo shoot in the lobby, we filed into the famous theater itself.  Our seats were not too far from the stage, which was pretty cool considering we got them at a substantial discount.  As the audience took their seats, an elderly gent sat next to Gene.  He was alone.  My sister looked at me with the telepathic message that we should invite him to go with us to see Billy Crystal later that night.  So, Gene and I struck up a conversation with him.

The old gent had indeed come alone to visit the city and see a few shows.  His wife had died years earlier.  We asked him if he'd like to join us later that evening to see Billy Crystal, and he agreed.  We all then gazed at the perfection of this magnificent Christmas Spectacular, decorated with the dazzling Rockettes and sprinkled with 3-D technology, grand sets and beautiful music.  It was a glorious experience I highly recommend!



After the show, we walked back to our hotel to rest.  But the walk was overflowing with holiday scenery, so Renee's camera and artistic eye were hard at work the entire way!

I have to say that the store windows in Bergdorf Goodman were the most beautiful of all!  Thank goodness the store was right next to our hotel because it was really cold outside!




That night, we walked for about 40 minutes to get to the theater where Billy Crystal was performing his one-man show, "700 Sundays."  We were on a budget, so walking was the cheapest way to get to where we needed to go!

We waited to make sure the older gent we had invited earlier found us in the theater lobby.  I took a picture of him with my sister once we arrived at our seats.


I was so happy that we could put Marvin's ticket to good use.  And, I was even happier to finally get to see Billy Crystal in this particular show.  You see, I had read the book ten years ago, and I absolutely fell in love with it and him.  I was in NYC when he first performed the show around the time I read the book,  but I did not get a chance to see it.  This was to be his last time ever to perform the play and I was finally there to witness it in person.  Here is a picture of the set from our seats in the mezzanine.


If you haven't read the book, "700 Sundays," please consider doing so.  It is about Billy's family and the number of Sundays he had with his father until he died.  The story captivates you and Billy Crystal is one of the best performers ever to grace a stage.  I was in hog heaven!

In the play, Billy talks about how he either wanted to be a Yankee baseball player, a comic, or a comic Yankee baseball player.  He said he wasn't sure if he could be a great ball player but that when he saw comedians performing in the Catskills, he looked at them and said, "That, I can do!"

Well, I looked at Billy Crystal performing up on that stage in a play he had written and I said to my husband and my sister, "That, I can do!"  I was exhilarated!  It was the perfect night...well, except that Marvin never did get any money into our bank account and I had to figure out a way to see a few more shows so that my sister did not feel cheated.  It was important, so I figured it out.

There is a thing called "General Rush Tickets" wherein people can stand in line before a theater opens in the morning to get what they call "rush" tickets at a very low price.  Normally, I would never get up early and walk blocks in the cold just to wait in line for over an hour to save some money.  But, for my sister...yes, and these "rush" tickets were all only $37!     (Renee and Heidi in hotel lobby)


I made a plan for the following morning.  Gene and I would walk Renee over to the theater that had rush tickets for "Pippin," because she really wanted to see that.  Gene and I had seen it already, so we would go to another theater that had rush tickets for a new show called "After Midnight."  We would all buy matinee tickets and then meet at the TKTS booth in Time's Square to buy discount tickets for another show that evening.  That was the plan.  I set my alarm and went to sleep.

(I will continue the NYC trip on the next blog post.  I hope you will join my "followers" by clicking on the "join this site" icon to the top right of any blog post.  It will help me in many ways and I'd really appreciate the company and support!  See you next post!  Heidi)

Friday, January 3, 2014

The Con Is Out Of Our Home

Hurray!  After two months of no privacy, Gene and I finally came out of pocket to move Marvin into his new apartment on November 20, 2013!  Marvin was totally taken off guard.  I believe he was hoping to stay with us until he left to work with Frank Marino (Star and Producer of top drag show, "Divas") in Reno the first week of February.  But I really needed my space back to write, and Marvin had been talking to a man named Santos at an apartment complex for over two months about holding an apartment for him.  So, we thought it best for him as well.  (Hello Santos, if you are reading this!)

A few days later, I took Marvin to the grocery store and gave him $20 to buy a few things.  I asked him if we could go to his bank to talk with a manager about his big check taking so long to post.  I told him I'd have to pawn my wedding ring that afternoon in order to take care of financial obligations and that I'd really appreciate being able to at least speak to the bank myself.  He refused, stating that "Howard" (the fictitious lawyer) was on it and that he did not want to cause any problems.  I was very upset and realized at that moment that Marvin didn't care about anyone else but himself. 

It was nearing Thanksgiving.  Gene and I were a little down because our four grandkids (The Dungan Family) had just moved to Florida.  It would be the first year we weren't spending the holidays with them.  I had asked Marvin to invite a fellow drag performer named Brian to Thanksgiving at our home for dinner.  Gene is the BEST at cooking Thanksgiving dinner and I wanted to make it a nice day.  But Marvin's friend declined (I found out later on that it was because Marvin lied to him about me, thus causing Brian to think I was a bi_ch.)  So, Gene and I decided to go to the Venetian Hotel on Thanksgiving to enjoy the holiday decor and entertainment.  It was lovely.

     


                      
Then, a few days after Thanksgiving, my sister had a big, family dinner.  We brought Marvin so that he could have some nice food and company.  We also made sure he had plenty of leftovers to take home with him.

It was getting closer to December 16, the day we were all to leave for New York City.  None of Marvin's money had come in yet.  But he said at least his disability checks had been straightened out and that we could have one of those totaling $1,800 in the next few days.  This at least would cover what he owed my sister, "B" and then give us some spending money for the trip.

On the day that the disability check was supposed to post,  I was at my sister's home helping her to package toffee items she was giving as gifts.  Her toffee is addicting!  In fact, she now calls her company "TOFFEE ADDICTION!"  Lol!  More on that later.  I spent all day at her home hoping that Marvin would make good on this most recent money transaction.  But, he didn't and now I was horribly worried about how the four of us would be able to afford to go to New York in just a few weeks.

I spoke to Marvin about this a few times over the next week or so.  He just kept saying things like, "Oh, I'm not worried about that."  I told him it would be impossible for us to go if he didn't get some money in and that I was most concerned for my sister not having stress due to her heart condition.  I wanted to make sure she had a good time and got to see some shows.  I got nowhere.

Finally, on December 12, I asked Gene to call Marvin and see if he would let us try to sell his hotel room and Billy Crystal show ticket in order to have some spending money for the trip.  His airfare was non-refundable or transferable.  But maybe we could find another person to take the room and show.  Finally, Marvin said, "Yes, go ahead and sell them.  I can't afford to go."

What?  He can't afford to go?  If I had $126,000 coming from a life-insurance policy along with $50,000 coming from a settled lawsuit, I'd find a way to get some pocket money to go on a trip where most everything else was already paid for.  Wouldn't you?  This was the first real sign that Marvin was a liar and a thief...or at least the first sign for which we took notice.

By December 14, I had not been able to sell the hotel room or the show ticket.  So, I left a message for Marvin asking him as a friend to please get some money in from somewhere so that we could at least have spending money for this trip.  I reminded him of my sister's heart condition and told him to make it go right somehow.  Marvin later spoke to Gene and said he'd get some money in while were in NYC and put it in our account.  Do you think that ever happened?  If it weren't for the help of a dear friend, we would not have been able to go.  But, the three of us did spend a few days in Manhattan.

I'll put up some pics on the next blog post and tell you about the big blow-up I had with Marvin as we continue together on this crazy journey.  If you would be so inclined as to help me get justice and to also promote this blog and my play, I'd really appreciate your sharing this blog with friends and becoming a follower.  I need to bring attention to this matter so that the law takes it more seriously.  Also, I intend to get the play produced starring myself and two queens, which is the reason I brought Marvin to Vegas from Florida in the first place!  So, I cannot wait to tell you what is going on with the play!

Did I confront Marvin?  Did I investigate him by calling several persons?  Did he leave a vicious voice message on my phone that I am going to post to youtube so you can hear it?  (You will LOVE that!)  Did I press charges and take pictures of the precinct?  What else did I do?  LOL?  Find out by pressing the "Join This Site" icon to the top left and become a follower.  It's free and you will receive an email notice whenever I post here.  Thank you for reading this.  I truly appreciate it!




Thursday, January 2, 2014

Conned In A New York Minute

If you have not read this blog from the first entry to this one, let me just recap.  Marvin Nathan moved into my home on Sept. 24, 2013 for a two-day stay until his new apartment was ready.  I did not realize that he had a track record of getting into people's homes and then concocting stories which would allow him to drag out that stay for as long as humanly possible, all the while taking money from his marks by devious means.  I found this out months later when I decided to investigate.

In the last post, I explained how Marvin had now come up with one of his biggest lies in order to trap Gene and myself into further helping him.  He had told us he was going to make us the beneficiaries of his life-insurance policy that his mother had purchased for him when he was born.  To make a long story short, Marvin was now cashing in that policy of $126,000 to invest $75,000 in the play that I was writing, and in which he was one of the three stars.  The rest of the money was going to be a cushion for him to live off of until the play was successful.

We will now take the story from after he signed the legal investment contract on November 17, 2013.  He was still living with us because of a succession of lies wherein A.  The money he borrowed from a friend in Florida to move him to Vegas was returned to that friend in order to keep his privacy  B.  The money deposited onto a credit card from another friend in Florida never got on the card  C.  His government disability checks were fraudulently taken by three employees of his Credit Union and his "lawyer" was working on a settlement and to get his checks sent to his new bank account  D.  The life-insurance policy money was delayed in posting in his bank account because he did not have a Las Vegas driver's license or address.

How's that for a bunch of lies?  LOL!  But wait, there's more!  Marvin's lawyer, "Howard Newman," whom we later found out was non-existent and that Marvin was just great at speaking to no one on the other end of his phone, had "settled" with the Credit Union regarding the fraud with his disability checks!  According to Marvin, "Howard" had gotten him $50,000 after his lawyer's percentage!  So now, Marvin was not only getting his life-insurance check, he was also getting $50,000 from the Credit Union settlement, which "Howard" was sending right away!  Then, good news!  Ha!  "Howard" was coming to Vegas with a girlfriend and was bringing the check.  But "Howard" never made it.  Neither did the check.

Okay, whew!  I'm getting tired just writing about all the lies!  But, I digress.  Let's talk about the NEXT LIE in the series.  It is by far the most unnecessary (as if any lie is necessary) and possibly the most cruel.  You see, I LOVE BILLY CRYSTAL and had missed seeing his one-man show on Broadway called "700 Sundays" when he performed it over ten years ago.  Well, Billy was going to do a short run of this play again on Broadway and I wanted desperately to see it.  Marvin graciously offered to pay for a trip to NYC for me and Gene as a "thank you" for all the help we were giving him.  Of course, I said no because it was too much.  I also said we could not afford to go even with the investment he was making for the musical.  He then said he'd give us $5,000 from the money that he was receiving from the Credit Union settlement.  So, I looked at my airline miles and found out that Gene and I could fly to NYC for next to nothing.  I found a very cheap hotel room and thought that it just might work out.



Then, I spoke to my dear sister, Renee, who had always wanted to go to NYC during the Christmas Holidays.  In fact, it was on her bucket list.  Renee had a heart condition that was preventing her from working.  The Doctor did not want her to have any stress while they were doing tests and starting her on heart medication.  Renee wanted to go with us if we went.  So, I told Marvin and asked him if he wanted to join the three of us.  I am very, very close with my sister.  We are talking, VERY close!



Marvin said "yes" and then offered to pay for the four Billy Crystal tickets along with a celebratory dinner for us all if we went to NYC.  Being that this was Billy's last performance of this show ever, we all decided to take up Marvin's generous offer and spend a few days in Manhattan.

We are now close to the third week of November and airfares, hotels, etc. are going up in price but Marvin's money had not yet posted in his bank account.  He kept saying he was sure it would happen "tomorrow."  We heard him speaking to his lawyer and to the bank...or so we thought.  I told Marvin I should probably put the airline, hotel room and show tickets on my credit card before the prices got too high and then he could just pay me back as soon as his money posted.  He gave me the data for his airline ticket such as middle name and birth date.  I booked everything for the four us.  My sister gave me $600 in cash toward some of her expenses.  We were all excited to be going to Broadway for the holiday from December 16-19!  I was going to see my hero, Billy Crystal!

Marvin's money still hadn't come in by November 20th, and I really needed my space.  It would only cost about $1200 more to pay for Marvin's storage, phone, rental insurance and apartment rent.  Except, he needed a money order or cashier's check for the apartment.  No problem!  My sister, Renee, had given us $600 cash toward her NYC trip.  We told Marvin he could borrow her money for the apartment and that we'd cover the rest to move him that very day!  He was a bit shocked!  I don't think he expected us to move him out!  In fact, I believe he was hoping to stay with us until he went to work in Reno for Frank Marino (Star and Producer of the top drag show "Divas") the first week of Februrary 2014!   But Gene and I made the decision to move him out and it was done within minutes of telling him.  I'm so glad it happened that way because he had no time to take anything from our home or do anything else devious like that.

But Marvin needed help moving his items from his storage to his new apartment.  He decided to "hire" Gene's assistant who works for him in his recording studio.  We'll call this man "B."  "B" is a loyal friend of twenty years.  He is also a huge black man who was once a gang leader.  Not someone you want to cross.  Marvin got "B" to move all his items from storage with a promise of paying him $150 when his money came in.

So now, he owed me and Gene all the money we put out for food and his bills along with the money were paying in interest as well as the loss of income from not booking any work during the time we thought we'd be getting a draw from his "investment" in the show for Gene's studio time to produce the songs.  He also owed my sister $600 for her cash used toward his apartment, and $100 toward toffee gifts he "bought" from her.  Lastly, he owed "B" $150 for moving his items into his apartment.

It gets worse from there, if you can even believe that!  I hope you'll stay tuned to this blog to hear the rest of the creepy story!  You really can't write this stuff!  But the material is truly worthy of a reality TV show or a book or play.  Hmmm....

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